Marriage is full of many ups and downs, adventures, and incredible memories with the person you love. “A great marriage is not when the ‘perfect couple’ comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.” – Dave Meurer.
The reason behind unhappy marriages is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages. The great marriages are partnerships. Husband and wife relationships are like the relationship of Tom and Jerry. Though they are teasing and fighting, but can’t live without each other.
Husband is someone who makes you laugh, Wipes your tears, Hugs you tight when you’re feeling down, celebrates your success and keeps you strong when you lose.
Enhance your husband’s self-worth by discovering—and doing—what pleases him. Let’s have a look at some effective ways through which you can make your husband happy.
- Show him respect
- Affection
- Praise him
- Stay calm
- Cook his favorite meal
- Accept him the way he is
- Let things go
- Don’t spy on him
- Be strong and independent
- Don’t ignore yourself
Show him respect
Creating a loving and memorable bond with your husband starts with respect. One of the best ways a wife can show her husband that she loves and respects him is by actively listening to him when he talks. Refrain from interrupting. Try to avoid making any negative comments about his thoughts and opinions.
Affection
Many husbands simply want to experience more affection. You can show him affection by different ways such as: holding his hand in public, leaving a love message on his voicemail massaging his shoulders, showing that you care about him through actions of fondness will touch his heart. Try different ways to demonstrate how much you care about him by being warm. Simple things you can do include telling him how much you love him, make him happy when he’s feeling doubtful, and telling him you’re sorry when things go wrong.
Praise him
Sweet words can make your husband feel extra special. Your encouraging words could change his mood and it can really give him a feel of being a great husband. It can also encourage him to do more great things for you. You can compliment him for being a good husband. You can appreciate the way he pampers you, and also on his physical attributes.
Stay calm
When your husband is angry try your level best to stay calm. Arguing or counter-attacking may fuel the fire and make things worse. Instead, let there be peace for a while. Wait for him to settle down, and listen to him if he wants to talk. Don’t make an effort to prove yourself right by making him feel that he’s all the way wrong. This can make him irritated and things can really be dragged into a longer fight.
Cook his favorite meal
Good food goes a long way to bringing people together. Making a great meal for your husband is undoubtedly great way for you to show him how much you love him. When he comes home after a hectic day and you’ll serve him with his favorite food that is definitely going to work as a mood booster for him Plus, you get to enjoy a good meal as well!
Accept him the way he is
The most important thing is never try to change your guy into someone that he obviously is not. If it is not something that can cause him any harm (alcoholism, smoking, drugs, etc.), then you ought not to create a conflict by making him feel that you want to change him. You married him because you loved him the way he is so there’s no point to change him after he becomes your husband. If you try to change his base nature then obviously it’ll be a mistake on your part.
It’s better to let things go
“A good marriage is the union of two good forgivers.” – Ruth Bell Graham
If we talk about forgiveness, it is ‘something that plays always a vital role in making a relationship successful. If he has forgotten anniversary, you birthday or anything else Don’t just indulge yourself in heated argument, just take a deep breath and say It’s okay. Your lenient and cool behavior would definitely make him realize his mistake.
Don’t spy on him just trust him
If you have been cheated on or hurt in a past relationship, don’t let that baggage follow you into your marriage. Don’t spy on him when he’s out with his friends. Let him know that you trust him and he will for sure do all that he can to ensure he does not break your trust.
Be strong and independent woman
Tell your partner where he is wrong in a respectful way. Don’t bend over to anything he says just to make it easier for his ego. Explain to him what he has done wrong and don’t make it a personal matter. Be a strong and independent woman he fell in love with.
Don’t ignore yourself
When you are making great efforts to make your husband happy don’t forget about yourself. It’s necessary to look beautiful for our spouse and of course for ourselves too. Don’t ever ignore to groom yourself. We all have got a lot of work to do either its house chores or some office work, it becomes difficult to keep yourself presentable even at home. You can make little effort for yourself to show him your beauty. Brush your teeth, take a shower, and wear a beautiful dress, and flaunt what you have! It will definitely make him happy, undoubtedly in return he’ll do the same for you and he will make himself look amazing!
Do the things you know makes your husband happy.
What do you do that makes your husband happy? Share your precious views with us.