Famous writer Khalil-ur-Rehman is known for his problematic views about women. In a recent interview, he called himself ‘feminist’ and shared his views about women.
p’Khalil-ur-Rehman Qamar in an interview defended his ideas and โPhilosophyโ around how he sees society.
He talked about his famous drama serial ‘Mere Pass Tum Ho’ and shared, “It (Mere Pass Tum Ho) is a story of several men, not just one. I have come across multiple married couples who go through the same ordeal. Iโve observed when a married woman cheats, she doesnโt feel ashamed at all. The reason behind her not feeling guilty is because she has been backed by another man. When an unmarried woman cheats, she feels guilty.โ
He also stated, “But when a married man betrays his wife, he feels guilty. He feels embarrassed.โ
Khalil also said that women shouldn’t criticize Mere Pass Tum Ho and shared, “Iโm only narrating this story in your [womenโs] favor. Like it or not, I donโt call every woman a woman. To me, the only beautiful trait a woman can possess is her loyalty and herย haya/modesty. If a woman isnโt loyal then she is not a woman. Register an FIR against me for if you donโt subscribe to my point of view but I wonโt budge.”
He also shared, “Get someone to try me under #MeToo, Iย wonโt care about that either. But I wonโt be able to call every woman a woman. Thatย simply isnโt true forย me.โ
He continued and talked about how he is fighting for good women and said, “A man leaves all his honor, his self-esteem with his wife when he goes out to earn a living. And I curse those women who violate that trust. That was the concept behindย Mere Pass Tum Ho and so Iโm fighting for the โgood womenโ. It would be unfair to these [good] women to be classified along with those who arenโt loyal.”
He called himself feminist and shared, “Trust me, youโll not find a bigger feminist in Pakistan, but I fight for good women only. Loyalty is a womanโs virtue; donโt challenge it.”
“A few weeks ago, a feminist group had a conversation with me regarding equality. I asked them if theyโve ever heard about a gang of men kidnapping a woman? They assured me they have. I asked them then why donโt women do the same? If you wish to strive for equality then kidnap men as well. Rob a bus, gang rape a man, so that I can understand what you [women] mean by equality.โ
โRather than figuring out your own rights, youโre only asking your part from menโs rights. Thatโs never going to happen! The most one of these feminist groups can do is chant slogans against me, tweet a few thousand tweets but thatโs it! Women canโt do anything else.โ
Qamar believes if women were to challenge men the whole society will collapse.
โI was once in conversation with Sultana Siddiqui, and she asked me, โKhalil, why donโt you write anything against men?โ I asked her what should I write about men? Should I abuse him? I would, but then what? She said, โWhat do you mean? Even men remarry and indulge in extramarital affairs. Why do you choose to be so selective?โ I just had one question in response, โBut with whom? A woman, right?’โ
He believes if a woman says no to man then men will not be tempted to have extramarital affairs. He blames women are the reason behind the extramarital affairs of men.
He kept on saying how women are the reason behind the extramarital statement and justified his thoughts by saying, “You have to understand this philosophy. A wife is worried about what? Another woman. That other woman isnโt a man. So riddle me this: you are destroying a man and youโre the one whoโs complainingย about it as well.โ
โA man cannot say no. He just canโt. A good woman can,โ he concluded.
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